
It happened. I had to be the Mom who takes their child back into a store to return something that wasn't theirs...
Yesterday we went to the store to buy birthday presents. Shyler and Easton both had "grandparent money" to spend from their birthdays. Shyler also had to buy something for a friend's party. So the kids picked out their items, Easton paid first and then walked around the store and played with different things while Shyler and I paid.
When we got into the car and pulled away, I happened to look back at the kids right as Easton pulled a little kaleidoscope from his bag.
"Where did you get that?" I asked.
"Frwom the stow" he replied.
"Oh no buddy, we didn't pay for that, and we don't take things that we didn't pay for. That's stealing."
So I flipped the car around, drove back to the store and told Easton he had to go inside with me and give it back and apologize. He didn't want to go, but I told him that he had to, because I wasn't the one that had taken it, and he needed to apologize.
So in we went, I made him carry it, and hand it over, and say he was sorry.
And that was that.
On the way home, I talked to both kids about why stealing was wrong and we should never do it.
As I considered my course of action I took, I began to question if I had handled it correctly... I know that my mom used to make us go back in, pay for the item, and then she threw it away in front of us. (I don't actually remember this happening to me, but she said she has done it with some of us... anyways...) Was I wrong to simply have him apologize and return the item?
Thoughts?